No, people with disabilities are NOT defined by their disabilities.
But we are allowed to incorporate them into our identities if we damn well please, because they do play a major role in our lives— and you are not allowed to try to convince us otherwise.
That is all.
to guys who say women will never be equal unless there’s a female draft: stop sexual assault in the military, then we’ll talk. seriously when 1 in 3 female soldiers are raped by their fellow soldiers, we have every reason to stay away from military work.
People who say everything happens for a reason haven’t accidentally dropped their entire dinner on the floor